So I need to get serious in one thread in the hangout. Advice needed.

[Black91TSiAWD]

Oh I can just see it now. Bart, youre effed. kluvu2bye

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[ROOKIE1]

Why you little !!!!!!! I would hope , that the only decision to be made , is whether to keep or put up for adoption . Time to man up . I can only hope the potential child gets the best possible . You certainly seem to be way to selfish at the moment for this . You talk about all the things "you" have to change . Quit being a dick , think about the innocent child .

 

[mavisky]

The fact that you're asking a internet car forum for advice is disturbingly scary in and of itself. The two of you really need to sit down and think about this. I was in a situation like yours once myself, but the girl and I weren't even together. I knew instantly what I wanted to do. You guys need to lock yourself in a room until you're 100% sure of what you want to do.

 

[DSMunknown]

At least someone is getting some action around here.

 

[xdxoxuxgx]

One of my best friends had a kid when he was 17 and his girlfriend was 16. It's a year later now and everything worked out really well, even though they're still both in high school. I think in the end it would be worth keeping the kid and it will hopefully bring your family closer. Good luck with whatever your decision is though.

 

[Laysher91]

Advice is the thing you ask for when you know the answer, but wish you didn't.

 

[Red97Eclipseboy]

^Werd.

Don't kill it, dude. More than a few of my friends had kids early. They had the same feelings as you did, but they man'd up, and they're happy. You don't have to completly kick your habbits. Well, kick your bad habbits, but you don't have to stop playing with cars. You'll just have to slow down.

 

[KGB Pilot125]

Ever listen to Tom leykis? As he would say "You surely dont want to go in the hot tub or drink champagne and go in the hot tub."

 

[CPHunter]

+1 with Bigglesworth


i just lost my what was soon to be son last week, she miscarriage

 

[Atuca]

alright I am looking at this topic, and I want to just not reply or think about this at all, but I realized that I am just 19, and am sexualy active. If it happened to me, I wouldn't have the luxioury to just close the webpage and continue browsing other topics, and for that reason I want to tell you what I would do.

At 19, I am making enough money to support a baby, perhaps, but I don't have the time to raise it properly. I work and school about everyday now, and to raise a child, I believe that one parent should always be home to take care of the child. I don't like the idea of my kid raised by some baby sitters everyday. Once the child is in school, than that is a different story, but my advice to you, if I had the choice for myself, would be not to keep it. Not gonna argue about pro life or choice here, but that is my take on it.

 

[Turbohorse]

You are way to young, everybody makes mistakes but dont let it ruin the rest of your life. My cousin knocked up his first piece and they had the kid, he says hes happy but i know that he really isnt you can just tell. He cant do half the things he use to do, this will change the rest of your life not just a few years. But its your call, i think you are too young and should wait till your older and more settled down, just my 2 cents!

 

[Semprini]

I wouldn't have a kid. And I'm 26.

+1

that is a huge decision, make sure you think it through carefully.

 

[Bigglesworth87]

At least someone is getting some action around here.

You could to if you would give it up..... Nobody waits for marriage these days, and DONT give me that whole "Waiting for the right guy to come around!"

 

[PapioGXL]

My advice is just look at what would be the best for the child. Whether its your parents adopting it and raising it for you, or you and your girl getting married and raising it, you/her raising it alone, or adoption. I have seen all of these scenarios and most of them turned out alright. Just make sure whatever you do put the child first.

 

[GofaST4life]

1st- always put the child first.

2nd- if you make a choice, stick with it! dont flip flop with for example abortion/adoption or adoption/keeping the child...once you make a choice, STAND BY IT!

3rd- nothing in life is easy, so dont expect whatever happens to be something that is, or comes easy. whatever choice is made, there will be pros and cons to it, no matter what. Nothing in the world is perfect so dont expect the outcome to be.

Good Luck

 

[thegchild04]

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[Defiant]

You think you've earned any kind of slack around here, and can break the "NO RELATIONSHIP DISCUSSIONS" rule?

I guess that passes for "thinking" in your case.