Starter Solenoid

[ssjkouru]

Its a pretty simple answer i'm looking for here. My starter solenoid isn't plugged in and thats what I believe is why my dsm won't start. I just need someone to show/tell me where the opposite end (the 2nd half of the connector that holds the peice that snaps into it) connects to. I have a wire by my alternator that is cut and thought it might be that one. (pictures would be lovely)

here is a photo from snowboarder's article on the half that I have. #40 is the solenoid.
http://www.dsmtuners.com/forums/art...y-electrical-connections-2.html#post151542283

 

[unplugged]

for some reason i can't see the image