so ive seen other people post up with personal problems

[asd_gst]

so i thought i'd give it a try to see if i can get some help. Im 19 and my last girlfriend and i dated for almost two years, now she lives in ohio and im in south carolina, im still very much in love with her but i dont want to be its jsut causing problems with us. Shes engaged to a guy she came to visit me and she said she didnt want to marry him beacuse it doesnt feel right becuase he's not me... so how do i stop loving somone? ive talked to other girls and all that good stuff but in the end i always end up thinking about her, we've went almost a year without seeing each other like 3 months without talking but yet i still love her so how do you get over someone?

 

[Redfwdsm]

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im kinda going through the same thing and last time i saw my x gf's current bf i blew his truck up on him dumped a bottle of water in the gas tank i know its dumb and not the right thing to do but i was blindly angry with her and him cause she told me she would never leave me for him..
bullshit
anyway dude just keep talking to girls cut your x out of your life completly no pics no talking not anything and just move foward thats all you can do never give up

 

[asd_gst]

yeah, it sucks, haha i love that movie though... but yeah its just weird ive never felt like this before i always get over people easy and ive completely put her out of my life for around 3 months and then we started talkign again and yet the feelings have never gone away

and what makes it harder is im goign through some hard times at home with money and stuff too and shes really the only person who knows what im dealing with and i have to talk to about it

 

[dsmboy51]

Well, when there is a bad storm in my head i usually just drive my car.

 

[dsmboy51]

And just remember, there is plenty of fish in the sea.

 

[ilco187]

yeah i know that feeling i dated a girl 2 years then she moved to west Virgina and i aint seen her for 3 years then out of the blue she shows up living down the road from me after i have been in a relationship with my current gf for 5 years and has got me like at other times i been thinking maybe i could but i dont wanna jeopardize my current.

 

[asd_gst]

yeah haha thats funny my ex is now in wv well she will be when she leaves here, but yeah i love driving when somethign is bothering me, but car is currently under going a make over with the motor or i would be out driving right now. and i need a fishing poll or somethign i cant catch anythign lately

 

[dsmboy51]

well, good luck man. hope it all works out well.

 

[asd_gst]

thanks so do i, kinda gets old fast being depressed

 

[Redfwdsm]

idk if you burn at all but ive found that a blunt and a walk can help you forget about it for at least a little while


also if music helps you then check out emery and there albume the weaks end it helps me alot as well

 

[TofastForU_99]

yah dude i dated a girl for 2 years and i recently broke up with her for cheating on me but im still in love with her and she is not seeing this guy anymore and she wants to get back together so bad. but i cant get over the fact that she slept with that guy. but i fixed his car for him. nothing a little sugar and sand in the trans am gas tank wont hurt... but yah if your wanting to get over her cut her out of everything pics, notes, anything that reminds you of her and then do yourself a favor and get in the car and go find girls in the DSM. and hangout with your friends and keep yourself busy if you sit around all your going to do is think about her just cram as much as you can in one day and it will get better and better. i hoped this helps

 

[asd_gst]

yeah its helping, im just waiting for my friend to get off work. i think im going to talk to her tonight and have my final goodbyes with her. i guess its what i have to do

 

[asd_gst]

idk if you burn at all but ive found that a blunt and a walk can help you forget about it for at least a little while


also if music helps you then check out emery and there albume the weaks end it helps me alot as well

yeah but nah i dont smoke

 

[99gst_racer]

Sorry, bud. No relationship threads allowed here. It never ends well.


You're still young. Don't forget about the other fish in the sea.