Bad days

[EDM95]

This guy at work has been calling me names and want's to fight me.
I just ignore him and he gets even more upset for no reason.
This guy is like 7ft tall 350lbs and every one is afraid of him but I know
I am going to do some thing if he starts pushing me around like he does every one else. I already talked to my supervisor about this guy told him what was going on because if something does happen I can claim self defense. I don't care how big this guy is but if he lays a hand on me we are going to have problems. I am just there to work and get paid. Even after I reported this he walks by me like he is going to hit me and I know I have a short temper and that is not going to play out well. I just don't know what to do about this problem. Have any of you ever had a problem like this?
How did you take care of the problem?

 

[Lofty]

Well, my advice;
Use the skinny guy method, go for the kill spot right away [Baby maker zone]
Then go for his face.
But I can't really tell you what to do about that, why won't your boss do anything about it?

 

[Dallas J]

Heres a couple things you can do.

1)Document the times you brought the unsafe working condition do your supervisor. Then do your passive agressive thing till the fatty cant take it and decides to hit you. Then call your lawyer and sue (Its the american thing to do )

2) Talk to your boss, if he doesnt do anything go higher. Eventually youll get someone who cares about having jackasses at their work. Dont do this if he's a much more valuable employee than you though... If he's Mr. Superstar then odds are theyll pick his side and you stand to get canned.

3) Confront the guy, ask him what the hell his problem is. Usually people like that will just find someone they can push around, all bark no bite kind of thing. Then again, if you start barking back you might wanna make sure you have some bite to go with it (A few years of kickboxing and BJJ goes a long way, but pepper spray will also do fine )

 

[PIMking]

Why does he want to fight you?

I dont know what to tell you. I play ice hockey and Im on suspension for too many fights in a season. But if you do fight him just find some way to even the playing field. you know pepper mase, taser, meet him at a hockey rink and fight him on skates. or just sleep with his gf.

 

[EDM95]

I am not afraid of the guy I just don't want to go to jail for some idiot
whos is trying to act cool in front of every one.
I have to think about my future and how this would play out.
This guy thinks I am afraid of him because I reported this but I know I am not afraid of him. The boss told me well we have to investigate this so I was like ok what ever then.
The boss did not sound like he was going to do anything about this but I told him so we will see what happens about this.

 

[Lofty]

I can take a punch, so if he is hitting you, ask him if it makes him feel better about his life to beat on someone half his size because he was probably molested as a child.

 

[EDM95]

Well I have to go to work.
I will let you know how it went today later.

 

[EDM95]

I can take a punch, so if he is hitting you, ask him if it makes him feel better about his life to beat on someone half his size because he was probably molested as a child.

Good one.

 

[Lofty]

Godspeed EDM.


Remember, below the belt....below the belt.

 

[JFatch1890]

You wont even get hit if you know how to move Big people like that are easy to take out.Most people are only scared cause there size but being that size has no advantaged when it comes to fighting.Ive took out people pushing 400 pounds when i was like 13 and weighed like 150 pounds .Most likely if he's saying he is going to fight you and talking about it all the time he isn't worried about getting in trouble.Snitching on him is just going to make it worst In jersey snitches get stitches and that's not just a term said by people.If he is the type of person that fights a lot id watch my back cause that's going to set him off .Good luck just remember avoid if as long as you can and when it happens stick and move

 

[InfiniteGSX]

I'd be afraid to hit someone I work with, only because of losing my job.

 

[SpawnedX]

First thing is first, you can't hit or attack him in anyway first, otherwise the problem is yours, he can sue, have you arrested etc. etc.

Document anything, tell your boss and boss' boss that if something is not done, you will go to the police, document that meeting. If you get canned for it, you are covered under the Whistle Blower's act and can sue the company for mega bucks.

Now, guys this big, I am familiar with, though I am kind of big as well (6'2" 245 lbs), most of them cannot fight and like to make you think they can. They like to intimidate to make themselves feel more powerful. If you do have to get physical (meaning he strikes first), use their momentum against them. Big fat guy like that is going to throw an easy to spot ham fist first, he will lead with his strong arm, and he will usually plant himself like an idiot. He also is probably a moron and will aim for your face instead of the wall behind it.

When you see that ham fist coming, side step to his outside and grab his arm and basically use his momentum to flip him or throw him off balance. If he manages to keep on his feet, sweep him, firmly plant a sweep with your foot into the back of his knee and watch his lumbering ass fall on his back. A fatty like this will have a temper and feel humiliated and will want to get back up and keep fighting. You need to hit him in sensitive areas until he gives up, upper rib cage under his arm, outside lower back (kidney shot). These are your best bets to fight without seriously hurting or killing him. Remember he is tall so his knees are a weak point too. Groin punch if you are in trouble. Avoid face and neck. You may not think so, but one misplaced hit and you can kill him. Then it is manslaughter at best.

Only use those tactics in defense, please. You need to handle this like an adult, and getting authorities involved to remove the problem is best. Keep in mind though, this world we live in is crazy. He may get fired and seek revenge on you. Never know what someone will do, he may attack you or shoot you. Watch your back.

 

[thatblondechik]

I can take a punch I was molested as a child by barney.

FIXED! Jk Lofty...us girls gotta stick together.

 

[Lofty]

FIXED! Jk Lofty...us girls gotta stick together.

I'm...not a girl.

 

[thatblondechik]

I'm...not a girl.

Whaaaat!? Since when?! You know I'm just messing with ya

 

[PIMking]

I'm...not a girl.

yeah but you got longer prettier blonde hair than thatblondechick.

 

[EDM95]

I did not go to work today because it is my mothers birthday.
But I will be at work on monday doing my job again but this time
I will not take his crap if he does something to me. Last night the guy was
like this arm will knock you out what I am talking about this figer will knock you out.
So I told him to leave me alone or we are going to have problems. He told me he would get me
he don't know when but I best be ready.

 

[Lofty]

yeah but you got longer prettier blonde hair than thatblondechick.

*Jealous*



Well, EDM, Keep us updated on this, I'm interested

 

[tunethis]

I did not go to work today because it is my mothers birthday.
But I will be at work on monday doing my job again but this time
I will not take his crap if he does something to me. Last night the guy was
like this arm will knock you out what I am talking about this figer will knock you out.
So I told him to leave me alone or we are going to have problems. He told me he would get me
he don't know when but I best be ready.

What is this guy, a 3rd grader? I didn't know people like that still exist. I hate people who threaten others for no reason. Anyway, you gotta be smart about it. At your place of employment, the employer is responsible for providing a safe work invironment for employees.

 

[EDM95]

What is this guy, a 3rd grader? I didn't know people like that still exist. I hate people who threaten others for no reason. Anyway, you gotta be smart about it. At your place of employment, the employer is responsible for providing a safe work invironment for employees.

The other guys that work with us told me that he use to pick on this older guy
that he would slap him over his head and yell at him for no reason. But get this
the guy he would pick on was handicap so he could not defend him self. See
that is the thing I know I can defend myself just because I don't back talk to him does
not give him the right to slap me over my head because once he does that game over for him buddy. Man that guy just makes me mad.

 

[khartley]

Just mess with him til he hits you, then either hit him back, or have him fired.

 

[EDM95]

I will let him hit me and then I will sue him and buy me parts for my dsm.
That is a good idea.

 

[19BLACKGST98]

I am not afraid of the guy I just don't want to go to jail for some idiot
whos is trying to act cool in front of every one.
I have to think about my future and how this would play out.
This guy thinks I am afraid of him because I reported this but I know I am not afraid of him. The boss told me well we have to investigate this so I was like ok what ever then.
The boss did not sound like he was going to do anything about this but I told him so we will see what happens about this.

I think as long as you have documented proof that you have brought this problem up then you should be ok. I would go to work and talk shit to this guy so much that he feels he has to fight (make sure you having sex with his mom comes up often). Make sure you have a friend/coworker there with you that will back what you say no matter what. Then beat his ass. Dont let him fall on top of you though because that would limit your chances for success

**also ive went to jail for fighting on several occasions and nothing more than a few hours of my time and a $600 fine has come from it...once was in a conveniant store with a bunch of broken merchandise and I didnt even have to pay for all of the broken crap.

 

[Dallas J]

I just thought of something else.

While I was kickboxing a lot of fatties would come in thinking they were bad ass cause they were big. Their punches pretty much did nothing but push me around. They had not speed therefore not much energy in their hits. And after a couple hits they would already be completely gases and have not strength even to push you around.

If anything happens just put your hands up and go with the punches. He'll gas and drop his hands. Kick him in the jimmy and punch him in the throat. Remember, theirs no rules in a street fight.

 

[blue98gst]

Do like Hoyce Gracie and jui juitsu his ass. See how long he lasts in a guillotine. Does not matter how big the dude is.