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[2GbTalonGuy]

Should tell her whats up.

 

[Bud92gsx]

Knows theres been alot of times I should just call her out on whatever..But I like her..Well not today for sure..But most days..

The story was I woke up to some rustling around in the bathroom..I kinda woke up and looked down to get my glass of water..Took a drink, set it back down and noticed my phone was gone..So I didn't get up and flip out I waited..Couple minutes later I heard plop on the floor and kinda opened my eyes and there was my phone....So I'm trying to distance myself from her, as much as I can..

 

[crusada]

Knows he should tell her whats up. I say be straight foreward. I went through this similar problem. Its fixed now. The way i see it if she wants to go through your phone i let em they just make them selves look like fools ya know. Eventually they will get tired of looking like an idiot. Such as the new safe auto commercial when the guys wife wakes up.

 

[Bud92gsx]

Should know I've been through it with her many a times..But she never listens or she doesn't care..This leads to me having trust issues..And isn't helping my mental condition when my girl is actually out to get me..

If I was sexting or whatever she would have a reason to go through my stuff, but I havn't been doing it for a while..Maybe I should start sexting again, just so we can have a huge fight, and get it all off my chest..

 

[crusada]

knows that wouldn't be a good idea it sounds good but its not. I don't know the situation though. I just know i went through the same shit and got it taken care of by a nice conversation kind of .

 

[Bud92gsx]

Knows that she is worrying that I am sexting, but I'm not..so maybe I should give her something to worry about..I just don't really want to bring it up, but then on the other hand I would like to rip her head off for going through my stuff..

 

[crusada]

Knows you would like to rip her head off but letting her do it shows that hey im not doing anything and your making yourself look like a fool. It pisses you off but by letting her do it like i said makes her look like the fool.

 

[Bud92gsx]

Should know I just want it to stop or I want out of this damm relationship..It's been too long now to still be having trust issues So I want to get it taken care of or Im done with her..

 

[Dhan]

Needs to tell the girl how he feels

Definitely wait until you're calmed down, you don't want a shouting match, but say what you said above. "It's over, unless you stop with this immature breach of my privacy." If she's got trust issues with you, then she needs to sit down with you like an adult and explain them to you.
Threatening the relationship usually gets a girl's attention. Just make sure you follow through, otherwise she'll never take what you say seriously.

 

[Bud92gsx]

Knows that might be what I'll do..Almost to the T..I don't think she has figured it out yet, why I'm not in the living room hanging out, and I don't think she will untill I say something..

 

[Dhan]

Should know she won't figure it out (she's not a mind reader

My girl never understands why I'm upset unless I sit her down and explain in great detail.

 

[Bud92gsx]

Should know she never knows that I know she's going through my phone..

 

[Dhan]

Should maybe consult family about the situation, they usually have good advice

 

[Bud92gsx]

Should know you guys are the closet thing I have to family..Besides my mom..

 

[Dhan]

Knows DSMers make good family

 

[Bud92gsx]

Knows like minds, like eachother..

 

[2GbTalonGuy]

knows fellow DSMers are always here to help.

 

[crusada]

Knows for sure that us DSMers stick together. Buds been there for me already thats for sure and im proud to be of family to you sir. Any time you need to talk im here for sure just drop me a text.

 

[Bud92gsx]

Knows I need to dig up the balls to call her out on it..

 

[2GbTalonGuy]

knows he can find them in his pants.

 

[crusada]

Knows that he needs to and knows that he needs to do it nicely but get his point across and to let her know how you feel. Also if you really care about her and love her show her that it might help ya a little maybe. Maybe shes having some issues to that she doesn't wanna talk about which id guess is the case.

damn you corey you beat me to the post

 

[2GbTalonGuy]

knows I'm a

 

[Bud92gsx]

Knows I do care but If i'm going to have to deal with her going through my stuff all the time..I'm better off being homeless, and living in my car..Which I cant drive..So I gues I would be living in my tent, which is half hers..So I guess I would be living in my car in the parking lot..

 

[crusada]

Knows he is and his car will hopefully be done before mine.

 

[Bud92gsx]

Knows I was gonna use the money I got for doing some work for my girls dad for a new turbo..But now she needs a cam sensor so that's outta the question..