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gf's ex bf kicked my door in

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airkingmt

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Dec 13, 2002
Syracuse, New York
Well im not sure if this is the right place to tell about a problem i have but it does relate with my body work of my 1991 eagle tsi....anyways yesterday i was at my girlfriends place staying the night and i woke up to find my car having two huge dents in the side of my driver door. on these two dents were mud tracks and the dent is able to be noticed inside my car door. i looked around my car and found another damaged spot with my licence plate being completely dented and im pretty sure the bumber behind the plate is cracked. all together three massive kicks to my car were done. i figured it could only be one person to do this and this is my girlfriends ex boyfriend. when i looked at the two kick marks on the side of my door i noticed a shoe print and i told anne to get her ex's shoes to see if they match. they matched exactly! so i called the cops on the kid and he admitted to me and 4 other people that he kicked the car door in. when the cop arrived he also admitted to the cop and he would pay for all the damage done. the cop asked me if i wanted him arrested but i didnt want any more drama with this nut.the cop documented the situation and said if her ex refused to pay for me to take him to civil court and the cop would be my witness to the incident. anyway the door is completely messed up and looks like a wave. i checked the whole door and my side mirror is messed up to prolly from the force of the kick. i want this phsyco to pay big time for this and he has said he will. so what im asking is for some advise to get the most money out of this kid to fix the damages. i should take my car to a number of body shops starting this week cause i want the money ASAP. thanks for reading.. any advice will be appreciated.
 
Get three body shop quotes. Get him to cut you a check for the cheapest one. Then you go to the junkyard, buy a door and a bumper cover and take them to be painted/color matched. Then you can have the rest of the cash to do whatever.
 
That sucks about your gf's ex.. haha what a hater..

Anyways, I think you kind of answered your own question. The thing is, its kind of hard to get the highest price to get your car fixed. Most body shops will want to give you their best price! LOL.. So I guess go to a number of shops, like you mentioned, and see who will charge the most. Make sure you get every single little thing that the guy damaged. Good luck with it.
 
splattj said:
Get three body shop quotes. Get him to cut you a check for the cheapest one. Then you go to the junkyard, buy a door and a bumper cover and take them to be painted/color matched. Then you can have the rest of the cash to do whatever.

Or you could do that LOL

But you mean get him to cut you a check for the most expensive right?

Damn that is a really good idea!!! hahaha
 
splattj said:
Get three body shop quotes. Get him to cut you a check for the cheapest one. Then you go to the junkyard, buy a door and a bumper cover and take them to be painted/color matched. Then you can have the rest of the cash to do whatever.

Get him to cut you a check for the most EXPENSIVE one. Other than that, my thoughts exactly.
 
use the extra money you save on buying something for your girlfriend, that will finalize victory for you. Possibly something expensive she could show off to her ex. :D
 
take lots of pics (like his foot print) of the car and get quotes on the car take his ass to court and get as many witneses (or people that know it was him)to say it was him
 
damn man that really bites, i had an experience like that with a girl i was seeing, except i caught the guy and his little baseball bat before anything serious happened to my baby. lets say damage was done and my car was fine ;)

you don't touch a mans car!
 
I see it like this... if someone has a problem with me, they should come to me. When they go to my stuff, then I have a problem with them. Go drop a cinder block on top of his car. Then when he confronts you, kick his ass.
 
igopoopy said:
take lots of pics (like his foot print) of the car and get quotes on the car take his ass to court and get as many witneses (or people that know it was him)to say it was him

I cannot stress badly enough how important pictures of vehicle damage are in a court of law.

GET THEM.
 
I would just be worried that my girlfriend still has shoes from her last boyfiend..
:p
All seriousness though GET Pictures you dont wan it coming up in court if it goes to that, hey may argue weather is was that bad or not.
 
If it was me, I would just get the kid jumped, then you wouldn't have to worry with him anymore.Buts thats just me.
 
splattj said:
Get three body shop quotes. Get him to cut you a check for the cheapest one. Then you go to the junkyard, buy a door and a bumper cover and take them to be painted/color matched. Then you can have the rest of the cash to do whatever.

Go to 3 dealerships and get quotes, they would have to be the most expensive.
 
Kill him...the only way to fix your door...you must kill him, your door will fix itself...

okay okay maybe not but this kinda stuff makes me mad, you can mess with me all you want, but touch my car...it gets personal...in all honesty get the quotes the pics, pretty much any evidence you can and file a small claims court case. Also get a police report!
 
My G.F is spanish so her Exs are short little spanish guys who think I am tall (6'1) either that or they are in Mexico.

so dont have that problem. that really sucks at least he admitted it. :thumb:
 
similar to wot *dont need 8* said,goto the most exspensive or most popular shops around and get quotes,least that way you'll get the most money out of him
 
Screw going to 3. Go to 30 and take the 3 highest prices out of the group :thumb:


















After its paid off, beat his ass and teach him a lesson.........hater :thumbdown
 
igopoopy said:
take lots of pics (like his foot print) of the car and get quotes on the car take his ass to court and get as many witneses (or people that know it was him)to say it was him


Igopoopy knowes his chit. This is VERY important.


Then find the best three shops, get the quotes. That way you sound fair when you say, I got three quotes and he will then pay out instead of giving trouble because if you go to court it can get a bit ugly because you might not get as much as you wanted because the car just has to be put back to its condition, (used car use condition) so your not going to get as mujch as the places can quote.

Hit em quick and have him pay out and youll come out better.
 
Geez, sounds like some pretty bad damage from a kick. Was he trained by Pele, himself?
 
First you should put his shoe on and go and kick all of the peoples cars of different ethnic backgrounds in the area. Then you basically frame him as a racist running around commiting hate crimes(dont forget to plant a kkk outfit in his car). After that, bring him the most expensive quote you can find(you may have to deliver this to the hospital room he is in). To put shame into this as well, "accidentally" leave some pictures of you and his ex in the envelope with the quote from the dealership. This works every time!
 
GsXtacY325 said:
use the extra money you save on buying something for your girlfriend, that will finalize victory for you. Possibly something expensive she could show off to her ex. :D
That is the stupidest thing you can do. Bad advise :rolleyes: Buy shit for the car.
 
96TSi_Chris said:
Screw going to 3. Go to 30 and take the 3 highest prices out of the group :thumb:


After its paid off, beat his ass and teach him a lesson.........hater :thumbdown
do this to


FiReBReTHa said:
Igopoopy knowes his chit. This is VERY important.


Then find the best three shops, get the quotes. That way you sound fair when you say, I got three quotes and he will then pay out instead of giving trouble because if you go to court it can get a bit ugly because you might not get as much as you wanted because the car just has to be put back to its condition, (used car use condition) so your not going to get as mujch as the places can quote.

Hit em quick and have him pay out and youll come out better.
now i feel smart
 
Go with a dealership for sure. they are by far the most expensive way to do anything to a car period haha.



Dave
 
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