Help! Im getting heckled by my brother.

[pj91gsx]

My older brother used to be nice and encouraged me to get the eclipse I have. I started to paint it, then He told me he was going to paint his bmw so he makes me move all of my parts around. My car is outside, I cover it up with a car cover and a tarp, but it is letting rain in my car, because I took a lot of parts off. Everytime Im working in the garage my brother yells at me for something about the garage. I dont understand why he is the one yelling when my car is getting rained in. Im nice to everyone, but I feel that I should push my eclipse down the driveway and into the woods. Is anyone getting heckled like me, I feel horrible when more and more when he does this. He does this every weekend that he comes home from
college. I do my best to avoid seeing him when he comes home. This is really killing me inside. Please share, what should I do. He is unpleaseable, and he treats everyone this way. I am also fixing his car for him for free, he is not thankful for anything that I do for him. WTF

 

[Detective Coating]

Tell him that his car is going to sit broke down if he doesn't let you finish your car. Maybe you should just finish yours during the week when he isn't around. Talk to your parents about it.

 

[ShawnsGarage]

If I were you I wouldnt help him do jack. Is it his garage? Another thing to help is put things back were you get them and keep the place clean and organized

 

[xioca]

options...

fists
baseball bat
get your parents on his ass
family councleing
refuse to move your car

 

[fwdmaster]

I work for the MOB, I can make him disappearJ/K

what kind of bmw does he have anyway?If he has a M3,M5, or M6 I can understand why he wants to park in the garage,but if he has a cheap 3-series or 5 series tell him to park it on the street

 

[pj91gsx]

options...

fists
baseball bat
get your parents on his ass
family councleing
refuse to move your car

Ive talked to may parents several times. My parents have talked to him several times. He just makes a stupid face. I moved my car out 2 or 3 months ago so he could work on his. He keeps coming home spending time with his feionce in the house while his car is in the garage taking up all of the space. My car needs a lot of work, Im in for fixing his car because it is getting sold and im getting paid to do the work by the buyer. This is my parents garage. I thought about putting a sign on the door, "If your going to heckle me then dont come in here, b*tch"

 

[Deuce_three]

Start screaming back at him! If he beats you up, you probably had it coming... Lol jk. Just tell him you don't appreciate what he's doing and make him feel bad, by telling him that nobody likes him because of his new attitude. My.02 cents.

 

[pj91gsx]

I work for the MOB, I can make him disappearJ/K

what kind of bmw does he have anyway?If he has a M3,M5, or M6 I can understand why he wants to park in the garage,but if he has a cheap 3-series or 5 series tell him to park it on the street

He has a 3 series, I have a 3 series too. He swapped an m3 engine in his because he drove it home 30 miles without coolant. His was repainted back in the day and looks crappy. So he brought it in the garage took it all apart and tried to sand it to paint it. Then leaves it for to weekends that he comes home and spends time with his feionce and expects to borrow my car to go back to college.

 

[xioca]

Alright some more info then so we can help you brainstorm alittle better.

Is he bigger than you?
Do you still want to be his friend?
how old are you?
how old is he?
is his fiancee hot?
what year in college is he?

 

[pj91gsx]

Start screaming back at him! If he beats you up, you probably had it coming... Lol jk. Just tell him you don't appreciate what he's doing and make him feel bad, by telling him that nobody likes him because of his new attitude. My.02 cents.

He has been like this for a long time. He hasnt been like this to me until, the past year. He says the stupidest stuff too. He will say, get me that socket wrench and I am 10 feet from it and he is 3 feet from it. I dont want to serve him because he is trying to act like everyone must do things for him, but he wont do anything for anyone else. I tell him to go back to college and stop eating our food.

 

[95tzlgst]

t-bag him when he's sleepin.

 

[fwdmaster]

Alright some more info then so we can help you brainstorm alittle better.

Is he bigger than you?
Do you still want to be his friend?
how old are you?
how old is he?
is his fiancee hot?
what year in college is he?

Great questions xioca


is his fiancee hot?

 

[pj91gsx]

Alright some more info then so we can help you brainstorm alittle better.

Is he bigger than you?
Do you still want to be his friend?
how old are you?
how old is he?
is his fiancee hot?
what year in college is he?

he is about the same size as me. Im stronger no doubt. I have a twin that is much stronger that is on my side.
Im 18, he is 22.
Her being hot or not has nothing to do with this, but she sticks up for me and my brother too. She reliezes he is mean and yells at us a lot for nothing. He is in his last year of college. I dont have any enemies. There are just people I dont want to be around that are not nice to me. Im nice to everyone no matter what they say or do to me. I always keep it inside. I have all of my stuff organized for my car and I do work on it on the week days. there is a lot more things needed to be done to it.

 

[EDM95]

What would I do if I was in this situation hmmm.
Oh right I will probaly kick him in the sack and tell him to GTFO and wait his turn.j/k
Just ask him what is his problem and if he says well your my problem punch him in the face
and run like crazy. Man I fell like drop kicking this one person,
but I will not do it because at the end of the day when it is done and said
what do I end up with nothing that is what I end up with.

 

[pj91gsx]

I think if I got rid of all my parts and my car, I would be happier because then I would know that he wouldnt have to yell about that. But he would find something to yell about. I can wait till I get to go to college and leave. I want to get a place where I can work in peace. Working on it calms me down. when he walks in its all yelling. One time he asked, "Where are all of my screw drivers!!!" he yelled it, I got so scared, I just dug up the two screw drivers I had used and put them in his drawer that he had of 10 more screw drivers. I bought my own tool set because of this. Yesterday he asked "where is the air wrench!!!!!!" I said I put it on the air tool shelf. He comes and works and leaves his tools out, and I put some of them away for him.

 

[xioca]

well the reason for asking if she was hot was to find out if there was a possibilty that he was ####y whipped... hmm your bro is sounding like an ass.

Getting scarred over skrew drivers is ####ed up, stop taking his shit man.

 

[97 4G63]

+1 for T bag...

 

[pj91gsx]

well the reason for asking if she was hot was to find out if there was a possibilty that he was ####y whipped...

He talks to her like that sometimes.
He does act "whipped" sometimes

hmm your bro is sounding like an ass.

He is.

Getting scarred over skrew drivers is ####ed up, stop taking his shit man.

His yelling is what scares me. I wont yell at someone if I think something needs to change, I will come to them nicely and say he look, I dont appreciate this. I just wont do that to him I just ignore him, or explain to him why I did or didnt do something that he asks. He asked me to fold the plastic back for the paint boot that he set up. I did and brought his car in and installed the head, then I put it back like it was because I figure he would be ready to paint. WTF

 

[EDM95]

Sounds like my two sisters geting into fights over nothing.
Don't hit him you might end up in jail like my sisters all most did.
Yea that is right they were fist fighting until blood was drawn.
Lucky I was not there when it was going down because I would of been mad.

 

[Afroclipse]

There are two of you and you can't take him on.

Hurt his feelings by saying something like "If I was to die to night my last wish will be for you not to come to my funeral so at least I can die happy"?

 

[pj91gsx]

Getting scarred over skrew drivers is ####ed up, stop taking his shit man.

I think the best way to handle this is to leave the house on weekends. Maybe go somewhere with some friends. I dont have a gf, because I dont have time for one, I cant keep up with one, I barely keep up with my homework with all the car stuff. I get home at 6 pm and get to work at 7 pm and work to about 10:30. My friend know I like to clean up heads with standard abrasives so one kid wanted me to do that, so Im almost done with it and another kid wants me to do 2 v8 heads, but I may refuse so I can get to work on my stuff.

 

[xioca]

alright you never answered if you still want to try and maintain a friendship w/ him. I mean there are many ways to show him that your sick of his crap. But T-bagging him which has been said many times so far would probably not leave him to happy.

 

[EDM95]

Here is an idea go up to him and yell at him for no reason and see how he likes it.
Be like where are my parts for my car! They were here before you got here!

 

[bartels903]

My brother and I used to be like that. Fight about everything. Literally, the only way to solve the problem for us was a full on fight. Landed both of us in the hospital for days. I broke his nose, cut his jaw. My arm was broken and i had a slash in my head. We are cool as hell now. Maybe he the is immature one, or maybe you are. Walk up to him confront him, if he says anything stick him in the damn mouth. Tell him you will do it everytime he talks down upon you.

 

[Scoped_GST]

man i hear ya. ive been heckled a time or two since ive been around, and let me say, being nice to everyone wont work. you bottle in and eventually lose self respect, all for some peace of mind. and the peace of mind really wont be peaceful cause its in your mind, if anything theres just a complete lack of a situation.

talk to him firmly. or tbag. or that sign might not be a bad idea, just to get things rustled up haha.