I had the same complaint when I first installed the AFC. Hell I even cut the wrong wire the first time (cut the knock sensor instead of the Air sensor right next to it... dooooh.

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Anyway, when it was time to install the EBC, I was not looking forward to this since it is so cramped even for a shorter guy like myself. But what I did is to first remove the ECU and also the other metal cube thingamabob on the passenger side of the center console near the ECU.
With those things out of the way, you can just about get the ECU connectors pulled to the outside of the console area....the larger one (24 pin) to the drivers footwell side and the smaller one to the passenger side footwell. This gives you better viewing of the wires and will allow you to tap into them easier. I did not solder but am confident that the wires are connected/tapped securely and properly insulated.
Hope this helps.