mindset
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Still have not got it and declined on my employers free vaccination.
Let's avoid the politics please. Anyone who thinks this is all just a conspiracy, that's fine. But please respect the site rules and don't start turning this into a political thread.For no reason other than to give obama dictorial power and to push socialized health care. I would much rather come down with H1N1 than the regular flu since only 2k die per year becase of H1N1 vs. 40k for the most common flu.
I hope people wake up to whats going on in this country soon or it will be gone before we know it.
It seems the fatality rate is about 1.6 % for the usa. 67,ooo+ cases and 5900 deaths.
This space was going to be used for a political comment... If you would like to hear it, PM me.

Oh he's still in office?
Anyway, I'm still not nearly convinced that it is nearly as bad as the media is portraying.
-charlie
The attitudes in here are priceless. I don't want to be the father receiving care packages because my pregnant wife has a complication within the 12 week window of the upcoming birth due to H1N1, which seems to be the highest risk right now.I came down with some flu last Thursday. It might be the swine flu. Or SARS. I am coughing a lot. Oh no.

My reply to this would be - if my wife and unborn child are are risk, how can I not get the vaccine? If they are at the highest risk, it makes no sense for her to get the vaccine and me not to. If I get the virus before she builds up immunity, she becomes exposed to it. Again, I'm all for naturally building up immunity and I've only recently started getting flu shots (when I became a dad). But I don't feel I'm in a normal situation and I'm not liking the way some are talking down and making fun of those who feel the need to get the vaccine.Chris, it doesn't matter to me whether you decided to vax your family or not. That's your decision. But, please hear me out.
You've got to know that your body has what's called an immune system. It does a great job of fighting off disease and virus's all by itself. This immune system gets better and better with age. This is why your unborn child and pregnant wife are at the most risk. Their immune systems are 1) nonexistant 2) protecting 2 bodies. Although there are ways you can boost your immune system naturally, by way of herbal supplements and natural vitamins without a vax.
It's also ok to get sick. Getting sick allows your body to prepare itself for the next hurdle. It's also a good thing to get a fever once and a while. A fever heats up the body in order to kill off any unwanted bacteria and virus's. You'll notice after you have had a fever you feel exceptionally well. This is because your body has fought off everything attacking it. Now, don't go reaching for the medicine cabinet as soon as you get a fever. Keep a watchful eye on the exact temperature you're running. Your body has an internal regulator that will keep the fever from getting excessively high when fighting off bacteria (105-106). It takes till about 108* where a fever starts to become damaging.
I understand where you are coming from when you say that there are too many risks NOT to get vaxed. But the stance I'm coming from is that there are too many risks involved with actually GETTING vaxed.
And yet, I've also read that this statement is opinionated and inaccurate.Do you know what is in the shot you just got? The H1N1 Vax was rushed so fast into production
Some of this statement has been challenged by those who handle the production (highlighted in red). And in the end, you have to weigh the risks. Is it worth it to everyone? No. Is the risk of the vaccine worth it to some? Yes. Most every doctor we've talked to, and we've talked to a lot of them, recommended getting the vaccine.This is all for a vax that has not been proven to work, was rushed into production, may kill you, and if it doesn't kill you may produce serious side effects, especially in your children.
To you I ask:
Why take the chance? When your body already has a system in place for fighting this in which has no side effects and will potentially leave you feeling better than you did before you got sick.
My reply to this would be - if my wife and unborn child are are risk, how can I not get the vaccine? If they are at the highest risk, it makes no sense for her to get the vaccine and me not to. If I get the virus before she builds up immunity, she becomes exposed to it. Again, I'm all for naturally building up immunity and I've only recently started getting flu shots (when I became a dad). But I don't feel I'm in a normal situation and I'm not liking the way some are talking down and making fun of those who feel the need to get the vaccine.
And yet, I've also read that this statement is opinionated and inaccurate.
Some of this statement has been challenged by those who handle the production (highlighted in red). And in the end, you have to weigh the risks. Is it worth it to everyone? No. Is the risk of the vaccine worth it to some? Yes. Most every doctor we've talked to, and we've talked to a lot of them, recommended getting the vaccine.
To you I ask:
If you had 95% of the doctors you talked with recommending it for your wife and unborn child, and all the research you've done led you to believe it was the best option for you (not necessarily everyone), would you still ignore it all and decide against it? I couldn't do that and still feel good about myself and my responsibility as a father and a husband. I understand some people don't have the same responsibilities as I do, or simply don't care. But understand that everyone's situation is different. Though you may respect my decision, I see some statements here that are not respectful. And that's what's so disappointing.
I'll tell you what- I declared my chest from my throat to my stomach and everything in between a National Emergency for two weeks here not long ago.
I'm glad it's gone, and that I can't get it again unless it morphs into something else. The pros were that I didn't have ANY congestion or stomach issues, but the cons were that my body hurt and my esophagus burnt so bad that I couldn't drink anything but water for 10 of the 14 days. The result was that I lost about 15lbs.
That's possible, but we can only control so much on our end. Me getting vaccinated is one of those things. So it's more about doing what you can to prevent it, and getting a vaccination is one of those things - it just seems more responsible for me as a parent.My side is, what if she comes in contact with the virus just being out and about at the grocery store before she builds up immunity to it and you had nothing to do with her contracting it?
I believe my wife asked every doctor she talked to if they were getting the vaccination, and most of them said yes. Could they have been lying? Sure. But at what point do you just trust a professional and stop buying into conspiracy theories? Believe me, we're doing as much as we can without being totally paranoid in order to be responsible about this.Before going ahead with the jab, I would ask them the following questions:
1. Based on your experience, what are the chances of getting infected with the virus.
2. If we do not get vaxed, what are your recommendations to prevent and help fight of virus's naturally?
3. Are there any all natural, preservative free alternative vaccines we can get to avoid the possible side effects? (generally the multi-use vials contain the preservatives to fight off the growth of microbes in the vaccine itself, single use vaccines generally do not need these.)
Then, I would leave the decision up to my wife, since she would ultimately be the immediate care giver of the child.
If she did not, at that point, want the vaccination. I would expect her to avoid going out in public as much as possible. (I'm not going to put her in a bubble or anything.) And boost her immune system with vitamins A-E, ginseng, and echinacea.
It's a tough decision.