DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT DO THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am very serious! I went through this once the EXACT same situation and EXACT same e mails! This is a scam, like said above EBAY does NO absolutely NO third party! I was doing it with a seadoo 19' boat that I paid 15000 for! I lost that 15k (boat was worth 25k) for about 6 months!
Here is what to do just so that you can prove this to yourself...cause I know its hard to pass. Send that e mail you got to
spam@ebay.com within a couple hours they will send you and e mail back saying it is a scam...GARUNTEED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am very serious man do not do this! I also garuntee she has not gave you her phone number...if she has she will not tell you where to go to get the car because "it has to be done through ebay"
Ever used photoshop? I can make a page that looks just like the e mail you got in about 5 minutes...give me an e mail and I will prove it to you...this is a scam!!!
By the way...the only reason I got that 15k back was because I flew to the destination where I sent the money before it got there....I met the guy (said it was a she that got divorced and kept the boat), that is the only reason I got the money...after I called the cops he showed up to pick up the money as I beat the shit out of him and we both went to jail...but I got out 1 hr later he is still in prison.