Found it! Just like last time I had the headlight fuse blow, two wires rubbed together the wrong way (different place) inside the harness and shorted out. Only this time, when I made my brilliant

jumper, the smaller of the wires caught on fire. So All I had to do was remove the wire loom and right there was a big burn spot. Rewired the burned one, taped up the scorched ones after checking them all and no more short.
So for those who find this later when searching, don't use a "jumper" to bypass the fuse, even for a short time. Fires like to start. The fire I had helped me find the short but that was PURE luck, I don't think anyone would recommend doing this.
Also, an idea for people with fusable links that blow out is to pick up some spade connectors, a glass fuse holder with 16G leads ($1.50) and a box of glass fusses for whatever wattage you need (5 for ~$1.50). That way when you're testing your "fixes" you're not blowing 2-3 dollor fuses each time you turn the key
