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Why do I hate socializing?

Outdorsman

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Oct 17, 2012
Las Vegas, Nevada
Like I can't talk to women unelss they are real close to me. I usually keep to myself and a lot of the shit I do shocks people. "Oh you work on cars?!?! The ####?" "You actually understand this crap?" "You can drive stickshift?!?" That kind of stuff haha. Why am I such a panzy when it comes to socializing? I drive like a demon and I'm not afraid to do anything except talk to people. I've done crazy stuff but for some reason talking to women or anyone in general is difficult. What is my issue? Serious advice needed haha. I'm still young 18. I feel awkward situations is my issue and people tell me to use the awkward to my advantage but I can't figure it out.


I'm literally known as the quiet kid, yet I do more shit than the average person in my classes. All people do is complain about how they have nothing to do which I find weird since they are the popular social kids.
 

buhay6

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Jul 9, 2010
Delisle, SK_Canada
hahaha im kind of like you, I'm really quiet around people I don't know till I get a feel for there personality so see if I can tone with them. Big key is confidence, if having friends around you makes you more confident to meet new people then hell tell them to invite people you don't know the next time you guys hang out.
another thing you can try is watching simple pickup on youtube these guys preach this shit and are total bosses!
Harry Potter Pick Up Lines: Get Her Number! - YouTube

CONFIDENCE MAN chicks pick up on it fast.
 

Outdorsman

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338
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Oct 17, 2012
Las Vegas, Nevada
hahaha im kind of like you, I'm really quiet around people I don't know till I get a feel for there personality so see if I can tone with them. Big key is confidence, if having friends around you makes you more confident to meet new people then hell tell them to invite people you don't know the next time you guys hang out.
another thing you can try is watching simple pickup on youtube these guys preach this shit and are total bosses!
Harry Potter Pick Up Lines: Get Her Number! - YouTube

CONFIDENCE MAN chicks pick up on it fast.

LOL I love there vids, they are hilarious. I've tried some of their shit on random people I didn't know and it worked once or twice but I never pursued it. I might try more of that confidence boosting stuff. Haha


Idk if I can use their shit in college tho haha. With people I see everyday you know?
 

buhay6

Proven Member
1,632
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Jul 9, 2010
Delisle, SK_Canada
nice man! ya just work at it and you'll be golden in no time. I've been getting laid every weekend now since I tried their methods, so easy after a while. Feel good to have girls falling all over me again....just like the high school days aaahhh yaaa!:sneaky:
 

AngelOfPassion

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Jul 5, 2011
Mesa, Arizona
I simply don't socialize because I just really have a disdain for people. Is that your problem? Or is it more of a "I want to but can't" type thing?

I find it easier to talk to someone online vs real life to be honest. Most people I meet I just can't stand.
 

buhay6

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Jul 9, 2010
Delisle, SK_Canada
LOL I love there vids, they are hilarious. I've tried some of their shit on random people I didn't know and it worked once or twice but I never pursued it. I might try more of that confidence boosting stuff. Haha


Idk if I can use their shit in college tho haha. With people I see everyday you know?
dude......I pick up collage chicks all the time, same as any other girl. find common ground and go with it. The more you say you cant do it the more you'll fail.
 

undefined0000

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Sep 2, 2012
Findlay, Ohio
It comes down to parenting. In many cases, children that were put down by their parents turn out to have overall self esteem, and there are other factors as well. But hey, you have a DSM, second gen too. From what I hear, they get the ladies wet. I'm not exactly straight, so going the 1g route doesn't affect me LOL.
 

buhay6

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Jul 9, 2010
Delisle, SK_Canada
I simply don't socialize because I just really have a disdain for people. Is that your problem? Or is it more of a "I want to but can't" type thing?

I find it easier to talk to someone online vs real life to be honest. Most people I meet I just can't stand.

hahaha online is a ton easier, so much less pressure. Girls are very easy for me because I've always hung out with them...... ya I did have sex with a lot of them to. Guys are a little harder to talk to some times, even at our local car meets i talk more with the girls then the guys because its just harder to get into that common ground.
 

undefined0000

Proven Member
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Sep 2, 2012
Findlay, Ohio
hahaha online is a ton easier, so much less pressure. Girls are very easy for me because I've always hung out with them...... ya I did have sex with a lot of them to. Guys are a little harder to talk to some times, even at our local car meets i talk more with the girls then the guys because its just harder to get into that common ground.

We only have one girl that comes to our meets, and she's a scary lady LOL. They stopped our meets because snow is coming :(. The AWD people are keeping it alive though! :hellyeah:
 

Outdorsman

Proven Member
338
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Oct 17, 2012
Las Vegas, Nevada
yeah I find it easier to talk to people online than real life. I want to but I can't but I also do have a disdain for people haha. It really depends who it is. But for the most part, I want to but I can't/
 

buhay6

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Jul 9, 2010
Delisle, SK_Canada
hahaha ya I hear ya, most the guys from our meets put their cars away so now our meets consist of filling up a coffee shop (usually a tim hortons) and sitting down to shoot the shit. How much snow you guys usually get there? we've got about a foot so far but because of unusually warm temps its melting and we're getting a lot of pavement frost and shit.
 

undefined0000

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Sep 2, 2012
Findlay, Ohio
hahaha ya I hear ya, most the guys from our meets put their cars away so now our meets consist of filling up a coffee shop (usually a tim hortons) and sitting down to shoot the shit. How much snow you guys usually get there? we've got about a foot so far but because of unusually warm temps its melting and we're getting a lot of pavement frost and shit.

We've had zero snow, they're all just noobs LOL. We did get some ice from the hurricane. Boy that was fun. AWD on ice is interesting... Its worse than FWD I feel like.
 

buhay6

Proven Member
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Jul 9, 2010
Delisle, SK_Canada
We've had zero snow, they're all just noobs LOL. We did get some ice from the hurricane. Boy that was fun. AWD on ice is interesting... Its worse than FWD I feel like.

very much so in my opinion, I dd my awd kizashi now and almost every corner the back end kicks out so I just start taking ever corner side ways now. :p
makes me think I should just stop half ass'ing it and get my supra!

tThey are a bunch of noob's then ya! no reason to park the good cars unless there's snow on the ground. Heard like 18 people died in New York from the hurricane, I thought Obama told every one to evacuate?
 

undefined0000

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1,073
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Sep 2, 2012
Findlay, Ohio
very much so in my opinion, I dd my awd kizashi now and almost every corner the back end kicks out so I just start taking ever corner side ways now. :p
makes me think I should just stop half ass'ing it and get my supra!

tThey are a bunch of noob's then ya! no reason to park the good cars unless there's snow on the ground. Heard like 18 people died in New York from the hurricane, I thought Obama told every one to evacuate?

I just didn't go over 3mph. Since my vacuum pressure sucks, I get like no low-end power anyway. I tried 10mph and literally almost died.

I didn't know anyone died in the hurricane. I guess they thought they were just too awesome...
 

buhay6

Proven Member
1,632
46
Jul 9, 2010
Delisle, SK_Canada
I just didn't go over 3mph. Since my vacuum pressure sucks, I get like no low-end power anyway. I tried 10mph and literally almost died.

I didn't know anyone died in the hurricane. I guess they thought they were just too awesome...

Should definitely try drifting man, such a rush!
 

josh408

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Jan 29, 2011
Bay Area, California
Sounds very much like me, the way I did it is I smile alot, wait for the opportunity to present itself like if the person needs help with something you volunteer. Doesn't work with snobby b****es but for the most part be the nice guy. It pays off WOMEN TALK! Especially in high school. don't know if you're in high school but that's my assumption. So far it's worked out for me but I have a gf so I just do this to make lady friends :) I've never had bad intentions though. I could never go through with playing a female.
 
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