Poll: Can men just ever be friends with women?

[TDX]

Okay. I thought this was the best place to ask this since we are mostly men, I had a debate going on with the ladies at work last night. They kept saying that there is no way for guys to just be friends with women. Because guys always tend to make something sexual out of it no matter. I told them they were wrong - that we are capable of carrying out a completely normal friendship w/o thinking about having sex with that person... What do you all think? Thanks

- Patrick

 

[ninjai_ruken]

Yes and no, I have plenty of girls that are friends that I feel no sexual attraction to. But there is one girl in my life who is one of my best friends when it to members of the oppostie sex. We have slept next to each other on many drunken nights and nothing has happend. She walks around me naked and gets dressed, there it a complete comfort zone there. But there is still a small sexual attraction between us. We have talked about before. She has even masturbated while thinking of me. But we have never acted on thouse sexual urges for some reason. I am content with being friends. Her and I are really close

 

[Redmachine]

I had a good friend that was a chick, she was attractive but there was no sexual attraction. I saw her more as a sister than anything.... she had a good ear, and I had the shoulder to cry on

 

[blue92laser]

When I actually come to think about it. I have once hooked up with almost every single one of my girlfriends. I will say, that there is one in particular that I have never touched. But thats it, just one. But not really cause I slept with her in the same bed, and had to force myself to not get with her or do any type of sexual things with her. It is hard.

 

[EclipseSH21]

Yes and no, I have plenty of girls that are friends that I feel no sexual attraction to. But there is one girl in my life who is one of my best friends when it to members of the oppostie sex. We have slept next to each other on many drunken nights and nothing has happend. She walks around me naked and gets dressed, there it a complete comfort zone there. But there is still a small sexual attraction between us. We have talked about before. She has even masturbated while thinking of me. But we have never acted on thouse sexual urges for some reason. I am content with being friends. Her and I are really close

Hit that shizzle bro! haha j/k

I've slept with or at least kissed most of my friends that are girls. Alcohol does that. There's one that got away though... anywho, I think this question depends on who the girl is. Also I feel it is IMPOSSIBLE to be good friends with an ex g/f. Maybe its just me, but that just does not work at all. However, the girls I have hooked up are still my friends for the most part, and I'm even better friends than before with some of them, because getting together also brought us closer together.

 

[leet]

I've learned to hate prettymuch anyone, now.

 

[L2RTSiAWD]

I've learned to hate prettymuch anyone, now.

Mike has been apparently been burned recently.

However this thread is the boyfriend/girlfriend/relationship vain and is not allowed in the hangout, sorry.