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Yeah, those two places are your best bet. Retail from the dealer is around $90, but you may be able to get a DSM club discount at your dealer or otherwise try partznet, but you'll have to wait a few days. The local parts stores can range in price, but you can get a lifetime warranty. Personally I went with the OEM Mitsu part. Hope this helps