So I'm dead set on getting gold RPF1's, the problem is they're not available in +35 offset for that size wheel. They're only available in +45.

I have Evo 8 Brembos that I also need to clear and have confirmed that the 17X8 +35 fits fine and clears the Brembos. Will the +45 work? I'm NOT the best when it comes to wheel fitment

With that size wheel and offset and assuming a 235/45/17 tire size you would be most likely not be able clear the suspension in the rear. You would have about a 1mm clearance, but depending on tire manufacturer it could have no clearance at all.

Look up the exact wheel but for an evo. That will pretty much tell you if they will clear your calipers. If it fits an evo with the same caliper set up then it should fit your dsm.

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Gives you a nice visual.