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datbmac

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Feb 5, 2011
Florence, South_Carolina
Any one been in love so bad that you cant eat when a breakup happens?
 
That's not love, that's just your emotions taking you over.


Best of Luck to you :pray:
 
It will be alright man, it will get easier everyday. Then one day when you get into another relationship you'll wish you were single again. Take advantage of it while you can.

Life is a garden.... Dig it, LOL sry had to put that in there.
 
I'm actually doing the same thing right now. But I'm old, and I've done it lots of times. I've accomplished more DSM goals in the last 2 weeks than in the last year (the length of the relationship). Focus on something that makes you feel good about yourself. It makes it easier to not focus on her. Of course you WILL be thinking of her, constantly, but if you're focused on something else, you aren't focused on her BS.

You're better off without her. If not, then she wouldn't be doing this to you. Trust us old folks.

Now, go work on your car!

P.S.: Be careful with the not eating if you drink alcohol. You can get in trouble that way. Especially in the summer heat. Your good friends will make sure you eat. Go to them and make sure they know what's going on with you.
 
If you don't stand up, if you don't man up, this shit will eat you alive. Keeping food down will be the least of your worries. Conquer this by next week - or be conquered, yourself.

Best wishes,
 
Just stick to your family, friends & hobbies for a while, you'll be alright
 
:cry:.....:cry:.......:banghead:.........:mad:.........:toobad:.........:|...........:cool:.........:thumb:...then you find your next piece of ass and its:hellyeah::D, and then you do it all over again . Cycle of life, people come and people go.
 
You sound like I used to be. I tell you this: She isn't worth it, never was, never will be. You think she's hurting over you now? Making herself sick? Hell no, she's chowing down mcd's or whatever eyeballing her next victim. Don't get hurt, get going and get over it, and destroy that part of you. Suck it up, and do something epic with your life, that way later on when you two meet again, you can watch the regret in her eyes when she sees what she coulda had. Nine times outta ten it's been proven women are morons (except the few socially graceful and mechanically sublime examples on here LOL. unfortunately all taken.....), and you won't meet a good one for awhile. So just build your car, build your life, and as for women, bang em then hang em. Pointless otherwise.
 
This has always done the trick for me.

































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Youll get over it. I went through one and I spent 1 week without eating. i wasn't even hungry and when i did I would pack my plate up. Sat down and just wasted the food. Lost 12 lbs in one week.
I learn and that will never happen to me again...
Learn to let go of things your fear to loose. That will help a lot....
Now I'm trying to learn to let go of my dsm if ever the case arouse LOL
 
Make yourself eat a few small meals a day. I know you don't feel hungry in the least, but you have to eat something. I've been through that before. You will start to feel better soon. Another thing that really helps me is music. The other day I was hanging out with this girl I really liked, and she blind sided me with the " I just wanna be friends" bit, so the whole way home I blared "Six" by All That Remains. Described almost exactly how I felt. It made me feel a whole lot better. :thumb:
 
Ya acutally just happened to me. I lost 20 lbs in less than a few days... we hadnt broken up at the time, but she needed her space to think or w/e, and so i was getting driven insane, couldnt eat, couldnt sleep, couldnt do anything i loved to do cause all i would think about was that. Well finally i told her i was through waiting for her to come back and it seemed like she wasnt so i just called it quits myself, she was wrong for me for so many reason, i just didnt see that at the time and wish it hadnt took 4 years and many lost friends to figure it out. So what i did, talked to all my old friends and tried reconnecting with them. It has helped me and now i am the happiest man ever cause i am actually being me, and who i used to be, which was part of the reason it didnt work out, cause i cahnged so much of my life for her, and for what? to be wasted on 4 years of what i thought was love? Here is one thing i got to give anyone in or getting itno a relationship, although some of you are smarter than me and probably already know this, dont change who you are for someone to love you, if they dont love you for who you are, then the dont really love you. There is many fish in the sea bro, sure it hurts now, but you will find that one fish that is right for you and you will have a feeling like no other in your heart and mind, and you will know it man. And just to think, all this stuff has happened to me in the last 3 weeks. And no I am a better person cause of it all man! Don't get down, and unhealthy, eat something bro. and focus on being a better person for you, not for others, once your happy, others will find happiness in you.
 
Hmmm, gave me some ideas ona new diet fad. Now if I can just figure out the marketing.

Take it from an old timer. There's another gal just around the corner. Right now you're just feeling rejected, not good enough, etc. That entirely normal. News flash, probably won't be the last time it happens either. Just means you haven't found the right gal yet.

On the bright side, what if you had gotten married and then this crap happened. Better now than later.
 
Get out of your house, go have fun, jam tunes, NO sad songs, and keep your head up like your mthfkn nose is bleedin.
 
Just do what I do,and start dating guys....



just kidding, Why dont you go boost? That always makes everything better, Oh and unless you want to die over a girl you better eat.
 
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