need advice on a chick. warning:HOMEWRECKER status

wishin4nX · May 16, 2011

chrisverneuil said:
^?

OP, I would go with the advice thats been given and That you have said yourself that you are doing and that is give it time. Treat her right and take it day by day as you have said. And if it is meant to be it is. If not at least the time that the two of you spent would be memorable and you would have a friendship at the end. If that is what you want

Yeah,this is exactly what me and her were saying.

yoshi_tony · May 16, 2011

skatershawn said:
wow... some crazy replies you got here!! haha cracking me up!

and for your situation op.. i one did that for about 3 months.. i felt like an ass because i know if i were him i would be hart broken, but i didn't know him and he was living elsewhere.. and she obviously didn't care for him because she was fooling around with me! She would always question their relationship, so i couldn't fell too bad because she didn't know what she wanted. I was just having fun! hahah

So my advice to you, if she doesn't know, ask her to really think about things, tell her how you feel but you dont want to end something she mind look back on to negatively. Catch me? Most likely she is extremely lonely, and there is a part of her missing due to the fact he "love" is gone, and you were the replacement, since you are not him, she is questioning everything.. she might not really want to lose him.. so you have to insure this is what she really wants! The same shit happen to me. ^^

BUT he moved back shit stopped between her and me, i became real good friends with him because we had the SAME interest... WEIRD SHIT. then a year passes and they finally call it all off(well she did)
And till this day(been 2 years) i still talk and chill with the dude!

haha damm real shit uh dont you feel weird being with the dude of the chick you were porking?

Bud92gsx · May 16, 2011

OldSchoolMotors said:
Play nice with her for a minute, then do every degrading sex act you can con her into.

I say the same thing..Hit it as fast as you can, just in case she chooses the other guy..But in all seriousness Ausi guys are aholes..Ausi girls love american men because they treat her right..If I was this guy I wouldn't leave a chick Like that all by herself in america with all the horny perves like VETTE..

And to back VETTE up You shouldn't have posted those pics, because Now I feel like I want to beat it.But my girl is home

..

But if It Does go down, you should send us all a raunchy pm..And submit it to penthouse forums..But to us first cause I'm not paying 8 bux for it..

So go for it man..If it goes wrong you will still have the memories in the spank bank..

Calan · May 16, 2011

yoshi_tony said:
dont you feel weird being with the dude of the chick you were porking?

He would feel more weird after being with the chic of the dude he was porking.

OP - None of this matters because all women are evil. If you don't believe it, check back with me in 20 years and let me know if you've changed your mind. Can't live with 'em, can't live without 'em, and can't legally shoot 'em. LOL

This whole thread cracks me up.

TurBoneRed · May 16, 2011

You better back off quick, you never ever mess with another mans girl no matter how bad she says he treats her. This girl already strikes me as unfaithful, shes playing lovie dovie behind her mans back because she is horny and thats the bottom line. She runs from a relationship because things got rocky, dude dont even fet involved with her, please listen to me and do what is right.

VETTE_50_TH · May 16, 2011

Im not a horndog. Just pokin funz

TurBoneRed · May 16, 2011

Wtf is she doing out at that bar anyway, man that shit just dont seem right at all, trust me on this one, dont let her strike you as the innocent girl in a badsituation, she is the bad situation, she is trash.

wdawson4 · May 16, 2011

TurBoneRed said:
You better back off quick, you never ever mess with another mans girl no matter how bad she says he treats her. This girl already strikes me as unfaithful, shes playing lovie dovie behind her mans back because she is horny and thats the bottom line. She runs from a relationship because things got rocky, dude dont even fet involved with her, please listen to me and do what is right.

I don't think that she is unfaithful I just believe that OP has game and he have the girl a well needed nudge in a direction in which she was already headed. You CANNOT make anyone do anything that they don't already want to do. (thats called rape

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wishin4nX · May 16, 2011

TurBoneRed said:
Wtf is she doing out at that bar anyway, man that shit just dont seem right at all, trust me on this one, dont let her strike you as the innocent girl in a badsituation, she is the bad situation, she is trash.

Wht bar?????I work at a bbq place,by drink I meant a large sweet iced tea!

black_gst · May 16, 2011

wdawson4 said:
I don't think that she is unfaithful I just believe that OP has game and he have the girl a well needed nudge in a direction in which she was already headed. You CANNOT make anyone do anything that they don't already want to do. (thats called rape )

i know the OP personally and i dont know if id go as far as to say that, but maybe he was just in the right place an the right time.

LOL

JK irv

wishin4nX · May 16, 2011

wdawson4 said:
I don't think that she is unfaithful I just believe that OP has game and he have the girl a well needed nudge in a direction in which she was already headed. You CANNOT make anyone do anything that they don't already want to do. (thats called rape )

Thank you sir,I do have a rather intresting approach to women LOL

.

But yeah,the relationship was rocky,I'm just showing her some options.

And this dumb shit,her fiancee was all like I love you and I'm right for you,but I want you to do what makes you happier,and do it with no reguard for me,just don't tell me,because when you choose me again I don't want to hold it against you. What a punk

wdawson4 · May 16, 2011

black_gst said:
i know the op personally and i dont know if id go as far as to say that, but maybe he was just in the right place an the right time.

Lol jk irv

burnnnn!!!!!

Calan · May 16, 2011

I'm pretty sure I just saw Jerry Springer come running through this thread. Anyone see which way he went?

yoshi_tony · May 16, 2011

TurBoneRed said:
This girl already strikes me as unfaithful, shes playing lovie dovie behind her mans back because she is horny and thats the bottom line. She runs from a relationship because things got rocky, dude dont even fet involved with her, please listen to me and do what is right.

i agree with him 100% but if your just their for the thrilll then go for it but if your thinking she's a keeper i dont think she is

FYI: theirs always 2 sides for every story so you wont really know the story until you hear both sides

4g63tc · May 16, 2011

I'm still waiting for John Cusack to jump on and brag about his Camaro...

wishin4nX · May 16, 2011

wdawson4 said:
burnnnn!!!!!

I know right?####in ass....its cool dog,how are those bent valves?

stukyl28 · May 16, 2011

Get her fiancées number and ask him what he thinks. I mean he hasn't come back to the states yet, how cool can it be down under? I mean I can't stand to drink fosters and I'm not much of an alligator wrestler so I can't really chime in there. But as for the chick goes, just feel her out or up what ever comes first

You could also try to get invited to the wedding and when the minister asks " speak now or forever hold your peace" that's when you chime in and wisk her away. That's my .02cents

Bud92gsx · May 16, 2011

yoshi_tony said:
haha damm real shit uh dont you feel weird being with the dude of the chick you were porking?

Nope..Never had..I've had my way with buddys sisters..And All my friends have always passed chicks on to the other one..It's not that weird...But every now and then you will catch her staring at you, that feels nice. LOL

Calan · May 16, 2011

stukyl28 said:
I mean he hasn't come back to the states yet, how cool can it be down under?

The last I heard, most of the public beaches are topless... so that would probably be enough to keep me there for a while.

Alan11 · May 16, 2011

OP . SHE LIKES YOU.
I say have fun while it lasts. LOL

wishin4nX · May 16, 2011

stukyl28 said:
Get her fiancées number and ask him what he thinks. I mean he hasn't come back to the states yet, how cool can it be down under? I mean I can't stand to drink fosters and I'm not much of an alligator wrestler so I can't really chime in there. But as for the chick goes, just feel her out or up what ever comes first You could also try to get invited to the wedding and when the minister asks " speak now or forever hold your peace" that's when you chime in and wisk her away. That's my .02cents

Ask him what he thinks bout...?

And LOL

@ that last part. Idk,I wouldn't want to be hated by her fams,friends etc like that.

mindset · May 16, 2011

wishin4nX said:
Ask him what he thinks bout...?

you pokin his fiance's clam.

Bud92gsx · May 16, 2011

I can see that conversation going well.."Hey I just called to ask you how you felt about me banging your fiance"..But what can he do right hes umpteen thousand miles away..And If he really wanted to marry her, he would be here and not there..

wishin4nX · May 16, 2011

Bud92gsx said:
I can see that conversation going well.."Hey I just called to ask you how you felt about me banging your fiance"..But what can he do right hes umpteen thousand miles away..And If he really wanted to marry her, he would be here and not there..

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