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Just one thing...be careful this chick isn't a princess. When a girl complains that she isn't being treated like "she deserves" that always throws a huge red flag for me. What exactly do you think you deserve?

I treat girls well if they're relationship material, because i want to. If i find that it is expected that i'm going to be picking up the tab all the time or constantly contributing a disproportionate amount of effort to a relationship, the bi*** can hit the road.

I'm one of those people that won't let a girl pay the majority of the time, but she had better offer.

True. But every girl that cheats, tells the new guy that she was miss treated. And if she is cheating with you, she'll do it to you. There was no reason she couldn't just call and break it off with him first... Heck she could've even just text him, but she didn't :notgood:
 
Just one thing...be careful this chick isn't a princess. When a girl complains that she isn't being treated like "she deserves" that always throws a huge red flag for me. What exactly do you think you deserve?

I treat girls well if they're relationship material, because i want to. If i find that it is expected that i'm going to be picking up the tab all the time or constantly contributing a disproportionate amount of effort to a relationship, the bi*** can hit the road.

I'm one of those people that won't let a girl pay the majority of the time, but she had better offer.


Na bro,she just likes nice gestures (like getting frozen yogurt on a bad day).
She's spend like 30 so far,vs my 25 LOL she always insisnt on going halfsies.
 
WOAH I WOULD GIVE HER THE BUISNESS... i would definitely risk it to get that biscuit
 
You cant be a homewrecker if the woman isnt married to a guy that is in another country, she is enjoying the attention from you because she is lonely.
 
True. But every girl that cheats, tells the new guy that she was miss treated. And if she is cheating with you, she'll do it to you. There was no reason she couldn't just call and break it off with him first... Heck she could've even just text him, but she didn't :notgood:

That's what had me trippin,but my thing is,I'm not homeboy,he's letting her slip,she emailed his ass everynight about us hanging out,and he just responded today. I won't let a girl slip from under me.

She's at the point where she likes me a lot,but she's more worried about explaining it to her family,japanese have big values about marriage and stuff,and she was telling me like how is she gonna explain it to her little nieces who know her fiancee,what is she gonna tell her mom?the guests that have been invited allready?


I KNOW there's a huge chance she will go back to him when he comes back,and that's a risk I'm willing to take.its like a race,you know you might lose,but you are doing it because its what you like,its for the rush,etc.
 
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True. But every girl that cheats, tells the new guy that she was miss treated. And if she is cheating with you, she'll do it to you. There was no reason she couldn't just call and break it off with him first... Heck she could've even just text him, but she didn't :notgood:

I wouldn't expect a girl to break off an engagement in 6 days, but you're definitely right about the miss-treated thing.

If i were the OP i'd give her a good amount of time to figure things out, and not put any pressure on her. I know i wouldn't jump into (or out of) a relationship in 6 days. Hell, i was "talking to" the current GF for 5-6 months before i finally made it official. I'm terrified of commitment, so i like to know damn well what i'm getting myself into. Considering she is leaving a potential husband for OP, he should give her time to understand what she wants.
 
I wouldn't expect a girl to break off an engagement in 6 days, but you're definitely right about the miss-treated thing.

If i were the OP i'd give her a good amount of time to figure things out, and not put any pressure on her. I know i wouldn't jump into a relationship in 6 days. Hell, i was "talking to" the current GF for 5-6 months before i finally made it official. I'm terrified of commitment, so i like to know damn well what i'm getting myself into. Considering she is leaving a potential husband for OP, he should give her time to understand what she wants.

SMART man right here.I am giving her all the time in the world,I told her we need to take it day by day,and just enjoy the company we give eachother. And i m not trying to be in a relationship right away either,this is me getting to know her,with the perk of kissing.and I as well am not the type to ask a girl to be my girl right away.

Yeah like she keeps it real,she told me he's the safe man,like she knows if he stayed wiith him he would provide what she needs,she's just unsure if she's still IN love with him. She told me if she broke it off I would need to give her time to mourn as she and him have been thru a lot and he is still important to her.

She's not giving me bullshit lines about how she's deff breaking it off and all that,she's keeping it real,and telling me she needs time to figure it out. I gave her till her wedding day LOL

Damn dude, definately a keeper LOL

I know LOL.and she's my first japanese other than ma 6 boltLOL
 
That's what had me trippin,but my thing is,I'm not homeboy,he's letting her slip,she emailed his ass everynight about us hanging out,and he just responded today. I won't let a girl slip from under me.

She's at the point where she likes me a lot,but she's more worried about explaining it to her family,japanese have big values about marriage and stuff,and she was telling me like how is she gonna explain it to her little nieces who know her fiancee,what is she gonna tell her mom?the guests that have been invited allready?


I KNOW there's a huge chance she will go back to him when he comes back,and that's a risk I'm willing to take.its like a race,you know you might lose,but you are doing it because its what you like,its for the rush,etc.

I hear what you're saying but I can tell you from experience that EVERY relationship requires work. There will be times in a relationship that you won't even like the person you're with and wonder what the heck you're doing. It's times like these that you have to do what's right for the sake of doing what's right. And you'll soon remember why you fell in love with her and you'll be so glad you didn't let temptation take you. This is why I would say ditch her.

And LOL @ Vette
 
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I hear what you're saying but I can tell you from experience that EVERY relationship requires work. There will be times in a relationship that you won't even like the person you're with and wonder what the heck you're doing. It's times like these that you have to do what's right for the sake of doing what's right. And you'll soon remember why you fell in love with her and you'll be so glad you didn't let temptation take you. This is why I would say ditch her.

And LOL @ Vette

I didn't understand this too well,why should I ditch her,because its what's right?what's right is that I found a chick who has all the qualities I like,whom if I found half in another chick this wouldn't be an issue. Only problem is she's in a relationship. A really rocky one. That involves a ring,which she bought.
 
And now all the horndogs are out haha

Anyways good luck with her man :thumb:
 
Play nice with her for a minute, then do every degrading sex act you can con her into.

Then...... throw her away like the trash she is.
 
Ok, in all seriousness, again she is NOT married yet, and her so called "fiance" is in another country, in which he may not come back. Why would he wait so long to come back when his fiance is here in the states? You are not a home wrecker, as she is not taken yet. If you two like each other, just keep on going at it.
 
If you want to take the chance, go for it. From personal experience, I found that MANY girls will go out/get engaged/even marry for the sake of not being alone regardless of how the guy treats them. My friend and I both grabbed our girls off others, there's nothing wrong if she chooses you, that's something for her to decide. Just treat her like any other girl you know and go with the flow.
 
Play nice with her for a minute, then do every degrading sex act you can con her into.

Then...... throw her away like the trash she is.

^WTF?

OP, I would go with the advice thats been given and That you have said yourself that you are doing and that is give it time. Treat her right and take it day by day as you have said. And if it is meant to be it is. If not at least the time that the two of you spent would be memorable and you would have a friendship at the end. If that is what you want
 
No ring?

No Problem.




Looks like this dude screwed himself, so i wouldn't hesitate to screw his chick.

LOL!!@!!@!#!@ ... Anyway, if you are really diggin her play it by ear. Don't forget you are only 23. If I was 23 still I would be the biggest male whore. Can't do that now I got 2 kids, a wife, and my DSMs LOL ...
 
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