wishin4nX
10+ Year Contributor
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- Sep 7, 2009
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San Bernardino,
California
What's going on guys? Well I'm in a situation I never thought I would be in....
Day one:I met this girl while I was working,she came in to the restaurant wanting a drink, and as soon as she came up to the counter I told her I wasn't trying to offend her,but she looked amazing. She blushed and said that had made her day.since she was having a really crappy day ias soon as I got off work I went next door and bought some frozen yogurt and then proceeded over to her job (she works 3 stores down from me in the shopping center). I go in there,and I'm all like "I know its cheesy,and corny,but you said you were having a bad day,so I thought id make it better" in front of some of her coworkers. She said that was the sweetest thing anyonr had done for her in a long time,to which I replied "well that sucks..."and she just laughed.I started feeling nervous since all her coworkers are late 20s and here I am some just turned 23 punk giving their friend frozen yogurt
so I left.
Day two:Next day comes around, and I go on my facebook, and I have a friend request;so she added my jobs fb,in order to find me. I accept,and post on her wall that I was just going to look for her,and she's all "well I beat you to it".so the day goes by,and we just so happen to have the same lunch,so we are chatting on fb,and she tells me her fb is acting up,and gives me her number so we can talk there. So me trying to get a feel for her,I go on her "info" on fb,and realize she's engaged. So we talk and I bring it up,and she's all yes I'm engaged,but we can still be friends if that's ok with you.I reply with sure,friendships rock too .so work comes and goes,and we are texting non stop.
Day three:so its Friday (which seat can I take?) And we are still texting non stop,so I ask her if she wants to hang out,she says sure. So we set a "date". So I pick her up,and that's when we talk about her fiancee,who is in australia due to an expried visa,how they been together for 3yrs,but he's been gone for 1yr,and how they have known eachother for 9yrs etc etc etc. Well as we are talking,I'm driving to my spot,on the way we pick up pizza (my treat) and she offers to buy drinks,and doesn't let me say no. So she buys some malibu and cranberry. We go to my spot,have half a pizza,watch little fockers,and drink maybe two cups each. Anywho we start talking about life,music,autism,views on life,politics,religion,etc etc. So we end up talking about how I once had to give my hamster mouth to mouth (true story),and she goes to console me,and I kiss her. I immedieatly back off and say I'm sorry. She tells me she's engaged,I apologize once more,then grab her and pull her on top of me .we start making out,but stop because she keeps telling me she's engaged. So we stop,and talk for another hr about what happened,what's going to happen etc. I take her home at 4am,at which time she emails (only form of communication at the time) her fiancee and tells him what happened.
Day four: I talk to her and she tells me for the first time she's doubting her engagement,because even though she felt terrible she enjoyed what happend Friday. I tell her I'm sorry again,and she tells me how they have been having problems all of 2011,and how he doesn't treat her how she deserves,and then she tells me she's really confused on what to do. I tell her I like her,and want to see her again. She says as terrible as she feels that we meshed so good the night before,and she agrees to see me again. So we go to my place,and we spend litterally the whole night (only got 2hrs of sleep) cuddling and talking about everything.
Day five: we went to watch fast five (on me),had dinner (on her), and talked at my place. She tells me I make her nott want to be engaged,she tells me the wedding is set for july 30th,but the guy hasn't even bought tickets to come back to the us,etc etc. I tell her she's amazing and I would treat her right,she hugs me,we kiss.
Day six (today this morning): she called her fiancee (intl call) and tells him what is going on,how she feels she needs some time to figure her shit out,he says he understands,he will give her some time to straighten things out,that he still believes she will chose him and that this is just some kind of cold feet symptom.
We have litterally been non stop texting calling chillin since day 2,I really dig this chick,I know what I'm doing is wrong,I believe in karma,but I also believe that if a dude can't keep his chick happy then that's on him.I mean,therre have to be some serious issues in their relationship if his girl is talking to someone else. So I guss this was a rant kind of,but I want to hear your opinions,thought,idc if you are for me or against me,explain your thoughts in the space bellow.
Thanks guys.
Mr syg?
Day one:I met this girl while I was working,she came in to the restaurant wanting a drink, and as soon as she came up to the counter I told her I wasn't trying to offend her,but she looked amazing. She blushed and said that had made her day.since she was having a really crappy day ias soon as I got off work I went next door and bought some frozen yogurt and then proceeded over to her job (she works 3 stores down from me in the shopping center). I go in there,and I'm all like "I know its cheesy,and corny,but you said you were having a bad day,so I thought id make it better" in front of some of her coworkers. She said that was the sweetest thing anyonr had done for her in a long time,to which I replied "well that sucks..."and she just laughed.I started feeling nervous since all her coworkers are late 20s and here I am some just turned 23 punk giving their friend frozen yogurt
so I left.Day two:Next day comes around, and I go on my facebook, and I have a friend request;so she added my jobs fb,in order to find me
. I accept,and post on her wall that I was just going to look for her,and she's all "well I beat you to it".so the day goes by,and we just so happen to have the same lunch,so we are chatting on fb,and she tells me her fb is acting up,and gives me her number so we can talk there. So me trying to get a feel for her,I go on her "info" on fb,and realize she's engaged. So we talk and I bring it up,and she's all yes I'm engaged,but we can still be friends if that's ok with you.I reply with sure,friendships rock too .so work comes and goes,and we are texting non stop.Day three:so its Friday (which seat can I take?) And we are still texting non stop,so I ask her if she wants to hang out,she says sure. So we set a "date". So I pick her up,and that's when we talk about her fiancee,who is in australia due to an expried visa,how they been together for 3yrs,but he's been gone for 1yr,and how they have known eachother for 9yrs etc etc etc. Well as we are talking,I'm driving to my spot,on the way we pick up pizza (my treat) and she offers to buy drinks,and doesn't let me say no. So she buys some malibu and cranberry
. We go to my spot,have half a pizza,watch little fockers,and drink maybe two cups each. Anywho we start talking about life,music,autism,views on life,politics,religion,etc etc. So we end up talking about how I once had to give my hamster mouth to mouth (true story),and she goes to console me,and I kiss her. I immedieatly back off and say I'm sorry. She tells me she's engaged,I apologize once more,then grab her and pull her on top of me .we start making out,but stop because she keeps telling me she's engaged. So we stop,and talk for another hr about what happened,what's going to happen etc. I take her home at 4am,at which time she emails (only form of communication at the time) her fiancee and tells him what happened.Day four: I talk to her and she tells me for the first time she's doubting her engagement,because even though she felt terrible she enjoyed what happend Friday. I tell her I'm sorry again,and she tells me how they have been having problems all of 2011,and how he doesn't treat her how she deserves,and then she tells me she's really confused on what to do. I tell her I like her,and want to see her again. She says as terrible as she feels that we meshed so good the night before,and she agrees to see me again. So we go to my place,and we spend litterally the whole night (only got 2hrs of sleep) cuddling and talking about everything.
Day five: we went to watch fast five (on me),had dinner (on her), and talked at my place. She tells me I make her nott want to be engaged,she tells me the wedding is set for july 30th,but the guy hasn't even bought tickets to come back to the us,etc etc. I tell her she's amazing and I would treat her right,she hugs me,we kiss.
Day six (today this morning): she called her fiancee (intl call) and tells him what is going on,how she feels she needs some time to figure her shit out,he says he understands,he will give her some time to straighten things out,that he still believes she will chose him and that this is just some kind of cold feet symptom.
We have litterally been non stop texting calling chillin since day 2,I really dig this chick,I know what I'm doing is wrong,I believe in karma,but I also believe that if a dude can't keep his chick happy then that's on him.I mean,therre have to be some serious issues in their relationship if his girl is talking to someone else. So I guss this was a rant kind of,but I want to hear your opinions,thought,idc if you are for me or against me,explain your thoughts in the space bellow.
Thanks guys.
Mr syg?
. But seriously, if you like her, enjoy her company and feel comfortable around her, and she feels the same, then let it go bro. Relationship's are tricky. If you two feel its the right thing to do, do it.
<- that was a sidenote
