RIP my cousin
No he didn't die. But I consider him dead. There's been a whole rift between him and the rest of my family because his dad/my uncle left him cause his wife/his mom cheated on him. I won't say what my uncle did was right.
We've been hanging out for a bit since Fall-ish 2007. We went to bars and drank a bit. Met some of his friends. Is it so wrong for me to facebook the girls later and talk to them? Course not, but he think otherwise. Calls me desperate and makes him look bad. Ok so I didn't do that shit anymore. Then he goes around behind my back, friends my friends, and then starts raping their facebook walls. I hate hypocrites. I do not condone them. I try not to be one. If I happen to act as one, I apologize profusely and correct my mistake. Then he basically hijacks my conversation with a girl he knows I like. He says I'm jealous that all my friends ask him to hang out and not me. I won't lie. I am. I think it's bullshit that they would go and do that. So I told him that's why I'm cutting my losses.
The fact that he denies it all and make it seem like he's still in the right pisses me off. I called him a hypocritical punk, backstabbing, low life. He called me a little bitch, told me to grow up. I told him that at least I'm not one to change my name and deny my blood ties. I told him I'd make it easier on him and deny him as my cousin. He asked if I was being serious. I said I've been doing fine so far since I've ceased all communications with him and others for a good 3 months now.
He then writes, "Live up to it then. Just remember, you'll never be better than me. You're not my cousin. yadda yadda yadda."
I'm already better than him cause I don't go around stealing people's friends. Especially when that person is family.
I miss him though. We had our moments when we were kids and we had our recent moments chilling, hanging out, bballing, drinking, eating, and all that good stuff. I was supposed to go to his graduation from pharmacy with a PH.D. But I just can't let this shyt slide.
Am I in the wrong? Can I get a second opinion? It was one of the more emotional blogs I have ever made cause this shit really stresses me out. I really need a pack of cigs and a bottle of liquor. I really think we're both wrong in our own ways but I have a reason to be mad. He doesn't.
We've been hanging out for a bit since Fall-ish 2007. We went to bars and drank a bit. Met some of his friends. Is it so wrong for me to facebook the girls later and talk to them? Course not, but he think otherwise. Calls me desperate and makes him look bad. Ok so I didn't do that shit anymore. Then he goes around behind my back, friends my friends, and then starts raping their facebook walls. I hate hypocrites. I do not condone them. I try not to be one. If I happen to act as one, I apologize profusely and correct my mistake. Then he basically hijacks my conversation with a girl he knows I like. He says I'm jealous that all my friends ask him to hang out and not me. I won't lie. I am. I think it's bullshit that they would go and do that. So I told him that's why I'm cutting my losses.
The fact that he denies it all and make it seem like he's still in the right pisses me off. I called him a hypocritical punk, backstabbing, low life. He called me a little bitch, told me to grow up. I told him that at least I'm not one to change my name and deny my blood ties. I told him I'd make it easier on him and deny him as my cousin. He asked if I was being serious. I said I've been doing fine so far since I've ceased all communications with him and others for a good 3 months now.
He then writes, "Live up to it then. Just remember, you'll never be better than me. You're not my cousin. yadda yadda yadda."
I'm already better than him cause I don't go around stealing people's friends. Especially when that person is family. I miss him though. We had our moments when we were kids and we had our recent moments chilling, hanging out, bballing, drinking, eating, and all that good stuff. I was supposed to go to his graduation from pharmacy with a PH.D. But I just can't let this shyt slide.
Am I in the wrong? Can I get a second opinion? It was one of the more emotional blogs I have ever made cause this shit really stresses me out. I really need a pack of cigs and a bottle of liquor. I really think we're both wrong in our own ways but I have a reason to be mad. He doesn't.
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Don't want to be a dick but man... Family feud over facebook? I think you both need to grow up bloods thicker than water and to destroy a relationship with someone you obviously care about over jealousy is ridiculous.
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Posted 05-17-2008 at 02:16 AM by lccynmbr13
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ooooo nice car iccy.....
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Posted 05-17-2008 at 08:30 AM by costas14
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It's not just facebook. It's a combination of all the other things he do as well. I take it as a personal insult to me and my family when he went and changed his last name. That's ####ed up. It's like saying he doesn't want to be related to us. Then cockblocking me on a girl I like?
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Posted 05-17-2008 at 11:35 AM by crimsondragon
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I don't know what to tell you about your cousin, but I will tell you this about the girl: If the girl liked your cousin better, let her make her own mistakes, there are PLENTY more out there, believe me. This is coming from experience. Family fighting over a girl is never worth it. Same goes with the friends I guess. It was a little ####ed up, but if your friends are shady like that, you don't need them. You can always find new girls/friends, but you can't really ever find new blood family.
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Posted 05-17-2008 at 02:04 PM by RedTalon95
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It's not about the girl, it's about respect. Just because he's your cousin doesn't mean that he can cockblock you. That's a man law. But I'd have to agree with most other people, no need to start a fight...just cut your losses and drink with someone else.
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Posted 05-18-2008 at 04:05 PM by ilikespeeding
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family will screw ya faster than anyone else i say forget him for a while let him eat crow and come to you
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Posted 05-18-2008 at 08:35 PM by tiffseclipse
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Here's what I say...first and foremost, man, do you know how many chicks are in this world...there damn sure aint nothing wrong with liking a girl...but if he starts talking to one that you've already been talking to, there's an easy fix - you ask her straight up, if she wants u or him, and if she says him, keep it movin. don't ever get caught up on that man, theres so much good stuff in life and so many women, you'll find one that if shes real, she'll tell that dude to get the hell out of her face since you had already been talkin to her.
as for your cousin, he seems to talk a wholeeeeeeeeee lot. name calling, and all that (although you both did) why even go there? just hit em wit the "ok man, see ya @ (insert wherever)' and go on with it. as much as we don't like to admit, our family members are human too, and that one drug dealer @ school, or that one nasty chick from around the way, or whatever, they're someones family too. just don't even waste your time wit it. simple as this - u have a beautiful car, and great knowledge of such. Right now, why does anything else even matter? When sh!t gets rough for me, my dsm always saves me, I just go do some research, find out what am I gonna do next, ### that's what makes me happy. find what makes u happy, and dont wry about that guy man, he's a hater, and the fact that u are giving him this much time is too much, u are already above all that... |
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Posted 05-18-2008 at 10:22 PM by KPEclipse
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Thanks for the thoughts. Yeah I already moved on from that girl. In fact I don't talk to any of them who rather hang out with my cousin. They say I've changed. Well I say they haven't stopped being shady but whatever, life is good as it is now.
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Posted 05-19-2008 at 06:21 AM by crimsondragon
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Odds are, she probably would have cheated on you with him if you two did hit it off.
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Posted 05-19-2008 at 09:15 AM by BigRedMonster
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Sounds like to me that ALL of you have pride issues. Learning to swallow you pride can open up a whole new way of life. I'm not saying turn into a b*tch.
Which is more precious to you; your pride or your family.... you can't have both. |
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Posted 05-25-2008 at 08:26 PM by laserspeeddemon
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